仔细想想，其实很多事儿没必要去计较，过去了就让它过去吧，你揪着不放只会让自己陷入泥潭，对别人根本产生不了什么影响，很多东西可遇不可求

仔细想想
Think carefully
其实很多事儿没必要去计较
In fact. there is no need to worry about many things
过去了就让它过去吧
Let it pass
你揪着不放只会让自己陷入泥潭
If you hold on to it, you’ll only get yourself stuck in the quagmire
对别人根本产生不了什么影响
It has no effect on others at all
很多东西可遇不可求
Many things are hard to come by