和周围人搞好关系的秘决就是，不要和他们分享任何成功的喜悦。人性中最大的恶，就是见不得别人比自己好，越是聪明的人，越是装傻，人际交往中最忌讳的就是炫耀，这也是人性里的虚荣。

杨绛先生说过：
Mr.Yang Jiang once said:
和周围人搞好关系的秘决就是
The secret to building good relationships with people around you is
不要和他们分享任何成功的喜悦
Don’t share any joy of success with them
人性中最大的恶
The greatest evil in human nature
就是见不得别人比自己好
I just can’t see anyone better than me
越是聪明的人，越是装傻
The smarter a person is,the more they pretend to be foolish
人际交往中最忌讳的就是炫耀
The most taboo in interpersonal communication is showing off
这也是人性里的虚荣
This is also vanity in human nature